Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Hostels and Clubs

South Korea represents a lot of firsts for me. The first few nights in South Korea I guess kind of set the tone of my experience here.

1) My first night in a hostel
Those who read my first blog know that I arrived a day early and a kind lady helped me find a hostel to stay at my first night. I stayed in a four-person FEMALE dorm, but only had one roommate for the night. She was also an American exchange student who took classes over the summer. She helped me find a place to eat dinner and then we went back to the hostel. ( I was too tired to explore ) Well an hour or two later, one of the workers barges into the room. No knock or “Hey I’m coming in!” Or anything. He just simply puts the key into the lock and turned the doorknob. He then proceeds to tell us he has to “fix the router” which is oh so conveniently in our room. He exits the room leaving the door wide open and as soon as I close the door, he bursts right on in again this time bringing another worker with him. Both of them take the liberty to lie all over my roommate’s bed. The room wasn’t very big to begin with, so it really became crowded when the two ahjussies (Korean word for middle aged man) took over the room. 

It was one of those defining moments where you ask yourself "What is going on in my life right now?"  
I’m not really sure what they think of foreigners if they assume its okay to barge into the other genders room without knocking or asking permission. In America, that wouldn’t be okay. They would have likely been threatened.

I came to this country thinking it was a very conservative country. I guess conservative is a relative term.




2) Clubs
.Sayyy what??!! CC went to a club?!

 My second night here, there was a welcoming party for all the exchange students in Seoul.  I joined a group of people who wanted to go to the party. We had a nice Korean BBQ dinner, and then decided to wait out the Welcoming Party because there was a special discount after midnight.  After dinner, we went to Club Maad. Now, for those who know me, know that clubbing/partying isn’t exactly my cup of tea…but since I’m in a different country I decided to give it a try. The club was small, and dark with very flashy lights that hurt my eyes and gave me an instant headache. There were more international students rather than Koreans. People were drinking, smoking, and yelling in each other ears. Not exactly my ideal place to meet people.  Honestly, all I wanted to do was go back to my room, turn on a nice Korean drama and go to sleep. 

I was happy when it hit midnight and we left the small crowded club and headed towards the welcoming party, only to find out the welcoming party was yet another club that was even more crowded and weren’t allowing people in.


So that was my clubbing experience. I went, I saw, I left. Never again. I much rather watch Japanese anime in my dorm room with my roommate.  That’s my ideal of fun.

14 comments:

  1. And that's why we old fogies don't go to clubs, either. Keep enjoying.

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  2. That's my girl. So happy my friend Jo found this first.

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  3. Love your "went, saw, left". I would do the same . . .
    Brazen guys . . . I hope you can make sure those workers don't barge in again . . .
    Continue to enjoy your "conservative " Korea experience . . .

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    1. That was just at the guesthouse. I'm now living at the university dorm and if the opposite sex enters the other genders room or even the hallway they could be kicked out of the dorm.

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  4. Even when I was young, even when sleep was plentiful, I never figured out why people thought clubbing was fun. I think the impersonal loudness, flashing and shouting keeps everyone safe from real personal interaction. Or else, I'm just strange.

    Hang in there. Fun is sure to be found in a more intelligent setting. Or just go ahead and take up knitting.

    Hugs to our American.

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    1. Exactly my thoughts on clubbing. I've found a small group of friends that are just as satisfied sitting in a cafe drinking bubble tea or flavored shaved ice.

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  5. At least you have experienced the good, the bad, and the ugly right up front. Maybe the rest of your stay will be more sedate. I am sure you will find your niche. Love your writing style. Good night, sweet American Girl Abroad!

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  6. The welcoming party didn't sound very welcoming! You'll probably meet tons of people in your classes in an "organic" sort of way instead of the bar scene. Keep exploring and trying new things though. And keep having fun. Oh, and learning too :)

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  7. Well, you gave it a try anyway. Soon, you will get to know people and get a feel for the country I'm sure.

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  8. I'm glad you went for the experience even though it wasn't ideal. You have exactly the right frame of mind, try something before deciding you don't like it. Have fun and that plate of food looks delicious! Ann

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  9. Oh my goodness! I would've wondered the same things as you with those guys just entering the room the way they did. If they understood English I would let them know they must knock first to make sure you are dressed! Is that a picture of the "bbq" you had? Hmmm.......that doesn't look like the kind we eat here in GA! LOL! Sorry you didn't have a great experience with the clubs. To each his own I guess. You'll just have to try things out and then learn what's good and what's not. You've already had some interesting experiences, see?!

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  10. "Ugh" on your experience of those guys barging into your room. Interesting how it goes in other cultures! I used to have a next door neighbor that was from Malaysia. She thought nothing of walking right into my house! I had to keep my blinds and curtains closed so she wouldn't see me though the windows and know I was home, because she was always at my door. Oh well on the clubbing experience - not for everyone, that's for sure! God bless.

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  11. Went, saw, left. You've got a good head on your shoulders!

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